Today is Saturday. You woke mummy up as usual and asked for milk then mummy also got up to make your favourite pancake for you while baba were still sleeping.
Yeah big pancake with blueberries.
Mummy had pre-booked the train tickets which departs at 1.30pm to JB. Baba got so angry that mummy wanted to go to Malaysia again. Haiz...going to 爷爷奶奶家 seemed to be mandatory and 理所当然; whereas baba always gets angry whenever mummy wants to go to Malaysia to see family.
Baba insisted to 'snatch' you and carry you off from mummy's arms. Mummy could feel your anxieties and fears. Mummy told baba stopped doing that but he told mummy to go to Malaysia without you as he wants you to go to 爷爷奶奶家 instead. Mummy finds it is ridiculous as always since mummy carried you for almost 10 months and gave birth to you, i am your mother but why would mummy's rights always get overwritten by baba and even 爷爷奶奶. Some more mummy's families reside in Malaysia and mummy hardly to see them except weekends. I told baba stopped frightening you as it will leave a very bad shadow and memories in your life then you even opened your arms and asked mummy to carry you instead. Baba refused to let you off in the beginning until you started crying. Then baba even punched on the wall and kicked the chair away. Mummy could not stop him but hugged you tightly.
Initially Mummy told baba that mummy would only go to Malaysia for a few hours with you as mummy also needs to bring some milk powder back from Malaysia which 2姨 had shopped for us since we only left the last packet at home. The price difference is almost 3x cheaper if we were to purchase milk powder in Malaysia and that is why 阿姨 always helped us to shop for milk powder and diapers during sale.
But since baba vent his anger to such unreasonable extend, mummy told baba that mummy will not go over but just requested him to be calmed and not to frighten you too much.
Baba changed his mind out of sudden and insisted to go to Malaysia and even threatened mummy that if mummy did not want to go over today then he will never ever go to Malaysia with mummy next time.haiz...
We took a taxi to train station then headed to train station to catch the train as scheduled. 大姨 waited for us at the train station but baba did not even greet her when we got in 大姨's car. Haiz...
真没礼貌!
恩, 阿姨们都很疼爱妈咪和你。我们都要感恩。mummy hopes you to understand that all 阿姨 really dote on mummy and they sacrificed a lot to stretch their budget to let mummy's to pursue tertiary studies in Singapore. Please be thankful.
We went to 4姨家 then 2姨 and 3 姨 also came. Baba did not greet anyone of them and juat sat on the sofa to play with his mobile phone. You must be frightened by the earlier incident and showed unhappy facial expression. I'm so sorry about that, 恩. Don't worry, mummy will try my best to protect you physically and mentally always.
3姨 initiated to go for tea break at a coffee shop. 3姨ordered 叉烧包 for you but you ate without much smiling. This made mummy felylt so sad. 阿姨 must have sensed something not right but purposely didn't want to ask anything about it. Then 2姨 even said she will buy everyone dinner tonight as she stroke lottery to keep us stay back longer. Baba did not respond though.
After tea break, 3姨drove you to 4姨家 while 2姨 drove baba mama to go and buy 金童玉女金身.
4姨 took photos and sent to mummy's while you were at her home and you were playing with 4姨丈 but without smiles.
阿萱姐姐， 冠斌gor gor and 冠杰 gor gor came back from tuition class and played with you.
2姨 insisted to ask baba to stay back for dinner and purposely drove us to her house to pick up those milk powder which she had shopped for us. We hadquick dinner with everyone then 3姨姨丈 drove us to Malaysia custom to take a bus and go back to Singapore
We reached Singapore checkpoint at about 10pm. Mummy was carrying a new bag which 5姨 purchased for us in Japan. She said this bagia big enough for mummy to keep all your stuffs when mummy carries you back to Malaysia. How thoughtful she is.
We reached home at about 11p but you refused to sleep. You played for quite some time but vomitted out of sudden. Mummy wondered whether itwas due to the oily dishes you ate during dinner as you seldom eat them. Anyway, you were ok right after that.
You insisted to read story book although it was already midnight and wanted mummy to read for you haha.
Good night 恩. Mummy is very sorry for what happened and you should not go through this. Hopefully baba will change his mindset and be nicer to mummy especially when mummy wants to o and see families in Malaysia.
